The picture above describes the culture of most interactions today; everyone’s vying to prove their point. Opinions are strong, knowledge is shallow, and emotions are strong
Everyone feels this, but those that engage in relational work feel it more intensely. From management, to nonprofit work, education, or ministry; work that is heavily relational has a unique complexity. In a society where hot button issues can divide, there needs to be intentional time towards togetherness. Otherwise, if relationships weaken, organizational strength does as well, thus diminishing commitment to mission and decreasing organizational impact.
This is where the power of a retreat comes in. When everything seems urgent and overwhelming, a group needs to slow down. I recently led a staff faculty retreat and it reminded me of the following:
- Rest: A time away from the demands of everyday life allows our hearts and minds to pause and calm down. I prayed at the beginning of one retreat that each person’s shoulders would come down. Having intentional time away from work and the internet helps this happen.
- Relationships: A good retreat provides time for casual and transparent conversations. From icebreakers to just chatting over a meal, these are opportunities to be reminded of each other’s humanity and learn more about each other’s story. Once in college I made a good friend with some I thought I “didn’t like.” Unhindered time completing a team building task broke down barriers and false perceptions.
- Refocus: A clear mind and relaxed body allows for fruitful times of meditation, prayer, journaling, or just reviewing the past season. The best ideas normally come from a relaxed and joyful mind.
As someone whose work involves teaching and leading discussion on topics such as race, politics, religion, and culture, I see how necessary those conversations are for strengthening bonds. Yet, lately I have seen the necessary complement to doing the deep hard work, times of retreat. From couples to coworkers, or even a personal time of reflection, a good retreat will help everyone involved look away from the world and look to God.
I lift up my eyes to the hills. From where does my help come?
My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth.-Psalm 121:1-2
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