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A popular workplace etiquette rule says, “there are two things you should never discuss, politics and religion.” Politics has the potential to get people on the defense or in attack mode. Years ago in my own blunder as a naive new professional, I found this to be true. As some in society seemingly indulge in polarization, pursuing unity is more important now than ever before. Divisiveness hinders our ability to address critical societal issues and focus on developing genuine relationships. Consider these three ways to pursue unity and overcome discord in your sphere of influence.

1. Serve alongside the marginalized: Volunteer with an organization like Restore St. Louis supporting immigrants, refugees, the elderly, and those in poverty. Stepping outside our comfort zones and working alongside those facing hardship fosters empathy and understanding. We begin to learn about their struggles, their resilience, and their hopes for a better future. This shared humanity breaks down stereotypes and builds bridges of compassion.
2. See through the eyes of others: Dedicating time to learn about the causes and struggles of others is an act of love. Differences can be a breeding ground for separation but they don’t have to be. For example, by understanding the systemic issues that contribute to poverty, we can move beyond judging individuals and start working towards solutions. This shared commitment to justice can create a powerful bond, even across political lines.
3. Seek unity through respectful dialogue: Seek out an intentional and respectful conversation with someone you disagree with. This doesn’t mean compromising your values, but it does require active listening and a genuine desire to understand their perspective. Ask open-ended questions, share your own experiences, and focus on finding common ground. You might be surprised by the shared values you discover, even amidst disagreement.

These actions may seem small, but they are powerful steps towards more loving and fruitful relationships. By serving alongside the marginalized, understanding the vantage points of others, and engaging in respectful dialogue, we can bridge political divides to develop a culture of benevolence and recognizing dignity wherever we have influence.

“Don’t seek revenge or carry a grudge against any of your people. Love your neighbor as yourself. I am God.”

-Leviticus 19:18 MSG

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