I recently had the opportunity to speak with a group of middle schoolers about the history of race in America, its implications today, and the power of words. Grounding our discussion in Proverbs 18:21—”The tongue has the power of life and death”—we explored how language shapes our world and relationships. Conversations like these matter because they help young hearts and minds embrace truth, justice, and unity. Below are some of my initial insights from this powerful experience.
- Racism is serious, and kids need to understand why.
Some may think middle school is too young to engage in deep conversations about race, but history proves otherwise. Many pivotal moments in the fight for civil rights—like Ruby Bridges integrating an all-white school at just six years old—show that young people are not exempt from racial realities. Teaching them early helps them recognize injustice and become advocates for what is right. - When children understand the seriousness of racism, they know not to make jokes or take it lightly.
Words matter. They can wound, heal, divide, or unite. Too often, children repeat racial slurs or stereotypes without understanding their weight. When we explain the history behind harmful words and actions, they begin to take responsibility for the way they speak, choosing words that build up instead of tear down. - God blesses powerful conversations like this with a deeper understanding and desire for unity.
Honest conversations, rooted in love and truth, open the door for the Holy Spirit to work. Many of the students I spoke with left not only more aware but also eager to be part of the solution—committed to using their words to spread kindness, not division.
As Maya Angelou once said, “Words are things… Someday we’ll be able to measure the power of words.” May we teach the next generation to use their words wisely, in pursuit of justice, healing, and unity.
Kathairo Solutions 
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